Monday, September 28, 2026

LETTER TO A FRIEND

 


 

     Today I wish to introduce you to the wonderful book in the bible called Philemon.  This is literally a letter to a Friend.  The letter of Philemon is a story of two friends.  This letter was written by Apostle Paul who was in was in prison in Rome.  Col 4:7-9.  It is probably the most personal of Paul’s letter and we see his heart, it’s about restoration. 

     Now Philemon was a member of the church at Colossae.  This church met in his house.  He was generous and benevolent. He was a man of some means. He was also a convert of Paul; Paul is writing to him about Onesimus: He was a runaway slave of Philemon.  Rebelled against his master and ran to Rome.  He came under the influence of Paul and became converted. 

     The lesson we learn from his life is that you can’t run away from God.  Onesimus became a devoted disciple of Jesus Christ. Paul wanted to keep him as a helper, this becomes a wonderful lesson of discipleship. Paul felt he should send Onesimus back and this letter is Paul pleading with Philemon to forgive, reconcile and restore Onesimus.

     In this letter Paul prays that Philemon would be active in sharing his faith.  Paul knew what was at stake, an entire generation needed to hear about Christ.  One of the goals you should have as a Christian is this very thing.  In Philemon Paul reminds him that he must have a full understanding of every good thing you have in Christ.  You have redemption, forgiveness, peace, love, joy and gifts of the Holy Spirit.  Many writers of the Bible call it full salvation. 

     Philemon’s love for Christ had given Paul great joy and encouragement.  Live a life of joy and be an encouragement and example.  He tells him to refresh the hearts of the saints.  Be a role model, mentor and example.  Demonstrate the fruit of the Spirit. 

     Paul uses Onesimus as an example of a changed life.  He makes an appeal for forgiveness.  We are to do this for each other.  So, what are the lessons we can learn from Paul in this letter.

It is important to appeal on behalf of others and the unfortunate.  Importance of being obedient to the law.  Onesimus had to be returned to Philemon.  Being brothers in Christ destroys all social and class distinctions. 

     Correspondence like this has a profound effect on the receiver.  In Paul case he wanted to remind Philemon and us that lives that seemed wrecked can be restored and be of great inspiration to others.  Robert Downey Jr. was a A list Hollywood star, but he fell into alcohol and drugs.  As a man young he literally had destroyed his career.  It got to the point where no one wanted to hire him.  He decided to get sober.  He applied for many acting positions without success.  Through perseverance and determination, he slowly rebuilt his career and life.  Today he is one of Hollywood most successful actors and a model of restoration.  You are only finished if you choose to be finished.  Paul showed this through this letter, and you can through your life.

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